friends vs mj khakis.

there IS a difference between friends and only mj khaki..

a mj khaki would "find" u to play mj if they are short of legs..

a friend.. would offer his/her place to share with u..

even though overflow..

a mj khaki would "ditch" u once they have place and legs to play..

coming up with all sort of excuses like..

" my other leg dont wan play.."

if u really want to play.. u WILL play. u WILL find legs..

or " ps cancel.." and den u find them playing with other legs..

friends dont! they are honest saying

" im really tired.. dont feel like playing"

which is understandable.. i mean people get tired all the time..

" have to accompany bf today"

understandable too.. since i m being put in a spot like this at times..

" cant make it have something on"

understandable.. mj can always play again.. impt events only once?

" overflow legs.. u want to share?"

thats the difference..

i have come across and heard it so many times..

tt i can expect who are those who will jio and den "ditch" me..

i think some even dont play with me because i don t have money to pay

theres this person who even asked me straight

" got st8 cash to pay"

....

money is impt.. win mj must pay..

but still... if just because u cant play to get paid..

den u dont play?

den go be a gambler since u so sure can win money..

thats what i call a MJ khaki.. and not a friend..

those who know me..

know im not rich.. but i love mj..i love it alot..

and of cause they will still call me up to play

despite me owing them money..

im not taking this advantage to say tt since im their friend

i can dont pay..

im just saying im thankful they understand..

and make me feel like im more of a friend

den a mj khaki..

rather than again and again being jioed for mj..

people acting nice.. and saying u can come over for mj..

den when u say u ok or cmi..

they ignore ur msg or after playing no contact..

those are "hibyes" or fuckers..

i have a bunch of mj khakis who are steady..

and always jio to play..tired also play..

but i would love to say tt some of these mj khakis are my friends..

and one in particular.. my best friend/sister :)

im very thankful tt she appreciates me..

and tt we talk bout everything..

doing the things we love tgt.. supporting each other in every way we can..

when i say supporting.. it doesnt mean tt she says wad i agree..

or i say wad she agrees..

of cause we do have different thinkings..

but we say how we feel..and wad we think..

and at the end of the day..

we would still respect and support each other decisions..

i would nv FORCE my gf to make a decision tt is painful..

or make her unhappy..

likewise.. i hope my bf will not be forced to do so either..

i know this person who lost her best friend a yr ago..

and cried reading her blog..

it makes me want to say..

cherish everything when u still have it..

if its gone one day.. it can nv come back again..

i cherish my gf.. and therefore i want to tell her.. I LOVE HER!

while i still can

so cheesy..lol.

xoxo,

mantha.